Homework isn’t the only thing this couple of three years worries about. With the passage of Proposition 8 in last year’s election, Metzler and Holeman's hopes of getting married have been dismantled.
Even though they can’t get married in California Metzler and Holeman do everything married couples do. They stood side by side in the kitchen washing the dishes, bickering and giggling.
With a lack of governmental support of gay marriage Metzler and Holeman often worry about their own safety. Public displays of affection are not just a sign of a love, but in some cases a cause for personal concern.
Weathering things like Proposition 8 and strangers on the street are common occurrences for same-sex couples. This seems to be a dark cloud on this couples horizon. However, there is a silver lining. “I think it makes you a stronger person because you have to deal with more,” said Metzler when asked about how being in a lesbian relation affects her.
Concentrating on what’s important the couple is planning on going away to college next fall. They hope to get into the same school, but Holeman has to complete more classes before she can join her partner.
Until that time they will continue to be the regular suburban family. Enjoying each other’s company, going to school, and doing the dishes.
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